After a woman is over 40, the opposite sex will still approach her, but for these three purposes

Is being approached and pursued by the opposite sex a woman’s charm or a purpose of the opposite sex?

When a woman is over 40, her body is no longer young, and she may be married with elderly parents and children, why would the opposite sex approach her and pursue her?

Some women think that they are infinitely charming and a great honor to be approached and pursued by the opposite sex after they are over 40.

In fact, men approach and pursue women after 40, not necessarily because of women’s charm, and it is mostly unrelated to love, but to purpose.

Otherwise, what do you think men love you for? Love your no longer young face, or love your body that is no longer flexible and has begun to change shape?

When a woman is over 40, there are still opposite sex pursuing her, and they can’t escape these 3 purposes! Without exception:

1: The manifestation of physiological instinct – to get a cheap meal of desire

Compared with men, women are more likely to be addicted to the attention experience brought by other opposite sexes and their heartbeats accelerate.

Because women want to be seen, recognized, praised, encouraged, and accompanied far more than men.

When some men approach women over 40, as long as the 40-year-old women do not directly refuse to keep their distance, the men will continue to approach and pursue them passionately.

Women think they have finally met a man who understands them, but in fact men just want to find a cheap meal of desire.

Single 40-year-old women are more likely to be taken advantage of by men because of their emptiness and loneliness.

Married middle-aged women, because they have accumulated too much dissatisfaction with the men in front of them and can’t stand the dullness of marriage, will open the door to being teased by other opposite sexes.

Otherwise, how do you think men can be so “shameless” to continue to approach and pursue a woman over 40? Because women give hints that they can be teased.

I advise women over 40 not to overestimate their position in men’s hearts, and be clear about “who I am” and don’t become someone else’s cheap meal of desire.

2: Desire for money – to get an ATM

After the age of 40, most women will have some savings.

Single 40-year-old women will have some savings of their own. Married 40-year-old women either control the family’s property and economic power, or are considered to be able to get money from their husbands, or have financial ability.

Therefore, when the opposite sex approaches, they will start with appreciation, understanding, and frequency, gradually start to launch “emotional” attacks, and finally gradually detect economic strength.

Once a man finds that he can get financial help from a 40-year-old woman, then the strong “pursuit” begins.

Under such circumstances, once a woman loses her sense of defense, she can easily become an ATM for men with strong desire for money.

In the cases I have come into contact with, such women are not uncommon, and they are pitiful and deserve it.

At the least, years of savings will be emptied, and at the worst, the house will be lost.

3: Want to find a ladder for promotion – step on women’s shoulders to achieve yourself

If a woman over 40 years old has the ability to promote a man but lacks self-protection awareness and shows no sense of boundaries with men, there must be no shortage of the opposite sex around her who are sought after.

This kind of woman often becomes a ladder for men without knowing it because of the word “floating”.

Especially when young mediocre men or divorced men with children approach and pursue, this has always been the purpose, not how much charm this woman has that young men are obsessed with.

However, young mediocre men or divorced men with children will use deep affection as a premise and “inferiority is not worthy of approaching” as an introduction to stimulate the 40-year-old woman’s saintly heart and passion, and finally willingly become a ladder.

In this case, whether the 40-year-old woman is single or married, the final result will not be very good.

Because, if you don’t see the truth of your identity as a ladder, you will either be used or calculated. Singles will be ruthlessly used and hurt, and married people may be alienated or divorced by their husbands after their indiscretions are discovered.

Of course, not all men are bad people. The premise is whether women over 40 have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong and whether they can clearly understand “who I am”.

If you miss the age of saying love, all relationships will become realistic. This is inevitable and normal.

Love is the purgatory of human beings in the world. Whether it is love or friendship, it can only be achieved when you meet the right person at the right time!